Introduction:
In 1968, amidst the backdrop of a burgeoning women’s rights movement, a powerful voice rose from the country music scene. “D-I-V-O-R-C-E,” sung by the legendary Tammy Wynette, wasn’t your typical heartbreak ballad. It wasn’t a song about lost love or fleeting romance; it was a raw and unflinching portrayal of the emotional devastation and societal stigma surrounding divorce, particularly for women in the conservative world of country music.
Composed by Bobby Braddock and Curly Putman, “D-I-V-O-R-C-E” resonated deeply with Wynette, who had recently separated from her second husband, Don Chapel. Producer Billy Sherrill, known for his innovative “Countrypolitan” sound, recognized the song’s potential and helped Wynette deliver a vocal performance dripping with vulnerability and simmering anger.
Released as the title track of Wynette’s fourth studio album, “D-I-V-O-R-C-E” became an instant sensation. It soared to number one on the Billboard Hot Country Singles chart, becoming Wynette’s first number one hit and establishing her as a leading voice in country music. More importantly, the song broke new ground thematically. Divorce, a topic often whispered about but rarely addressed directly, was brought to the forefront of country music, sparking conversations and challenging societal norms.
“D-I-V-O-R-C-E” transcended the boundaries of a mere breakup song. Wynette’s powerful vocals delivered lyrics that spoke not just of heartbreak but of societal judgment and the economic hardship that often accompanied divorce for women at the time. Lines like “The neighbors all know why you left” and “Now I gotta get a job tryin’ to make ends meet” painted a stark picture of the realities faced by divorced women.
“D-I-V-O-R-C-E” continues to resonate with listeners today. While societal attitudes towards divorce have evolved, the song’s raw portrayal of emotional pain and resilience remains timeless. Wynette’s voice, a blend of vulnerability and strength, serves as an inspiration to women navigating the complexities of relationships and societal expectations.
“D-I-V-O-R-C-E” wasn’t just a hit song; it was a cultural touchstone. It empowered women to speak their truths, challenged societal norms, and opened the door for a more honest portrayal of women’s experiences in country music. Tammy Wynette’s voice, raw and powerful, became a beacon of hope and a testament to the enduring human spirit in the face of heartbreak and societal judgment.
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Lyrics:
Our little boy is four years old and quite a little man
So we spell out the words we don’t want him to understand
Like T-O-Y or maybe S-U-R-P-R-I-S-E
But the words we’re hiding from him now
Tears the heart right out of me.
Our D-I-V-O-R-C-E becomes final today
Me and little J-O-E will be goin’ away
I love you both and it will be pure H-E double L for me
Oh, I wish that we could stop this D-I-V-O-R-C-E.
Watch him smile, he thinks it Christmas
Or his fifth birthday
And he thinks C-U-S-T-O-D-Y spells fun or play
I spell out all the hurtin’ words
And turn my head when I speak
‘Cause I can’t spell away this hurt
That’s drippin’ down my cheek.
Our D-I-V-O-R-C-E becomes final today
Me and little J-O-E will be goin’ away
I love you both and it will be pure H-E double L for me
Oh, I wish that we could stop this D-I-V-O-R-C-E.