Introduction:
George Jones and his heart-wrenching ballad, “Choices”. Released in 1999, this song became the lead single for his album, The Cold Hard Truth. Now, George Jones – bless his soul – was a country music legend. His voice, a rich baritone seasoned with a touch of gravel, could weave tales of heartbreak and regret like no other. “Choices” is a prime example.
Composed by Billy Yates and Mike Curtis, the song wasn’t originally written for Jones. But when producer Keith Stegall heard it, he knew it belonged with the Possum (Jones’ affectionate nickname). Stegall, a powerhouse in country music production, understood Jones’ strengths and the kind of material that resonated with his audience. “Choices” was a perfect fit.
The song opens with a simple yet profound statement: “I’ve had choices since the day that I was born.” It sets the stage for a retrospective journey, a man looking back on a life filled with crossroads and the paths he took. Jones, known for his battles with alcohol, doesn’t shy away from the demons he wrestled. The lyrics speak of temptation, of loved ones pushed away, and the consequences that followed.
There’s a poignant honesty in Jones’ delivery. He doesn’t skirt responsibility. The regret is palpable, a heavy weight carried throughout the song. “If I had listened, no I wouldn’t be here today” he sings, his voice thick with a lifetime of “what ifs.” The steel guitar cries alongside him, mirroring the ache in his voice.
“Choices” wasn’t just a hit song, it was a critical darling. It garnered nominations for prestigious awards like the Grammy Award for Best Country Song and the Academy of Country Music Award for Song of the Year. But beyond accolades, the song resonated with a generation. It spoke to the universality of regret, the burden of choices made, and the yearning for a chance to rewrite one’s story.
“Choices” is more than just a country ballad; it’s a poignant reflection on life’s journey. It’s a reminder that every path we take shapes who we become, and the weight of those choices, both good and bad, stays with us. When George Jones delivers the final line, “Living and dyin’ with the choices I’ve made.” , it hangs heavy in the air, a truth we all must face.