Introduction:
While disco dominated the dance floors in the mid-1970s, a soulful ballad emerged from the scene, capturing the universal ache of goodbye. “Kiss and Say Goodbye”, released in 1976, is a signature song by The Manhattans, a legendary R&B vocal group known for their smooth harmonies and emotional delivery. This poignant track, composed by Winfred Lovett and Bobby Martin, the group’s lead singer, transcended genre boundaries and secured a lasting place in the hearts of soul music fans.
Formed in the late 1950s, The Manhattans began their journey as a doo-wop group, harmonizing on street corners in Jersey City. Over the years, their sound evolved, incorporating elements of soul, pop, and gospel. “Kiss and Say Goodbye” exemplifies this evolution. The song features a laid-back yet sophisticated rhythm section, punctuated by soulful piano chords and strings. However, the heart of the song lies in the group’s signature vocals. Bobby Martin’s lead is a masterclass in emotional conveyance, his voice cracking with vulnerability as he expresses the pain of letting go. The supporting harmonies, sung by Gerald Alston, George “Rocky” Fernandes, Richard “Ricky” Fataar, and Charles “Charlie” Brown, weave a tapestry of shared sorrow, adding depth and complexity to the emotional landscape.
“Kiss and Say Goodbye” became a breakout hit for The Manhattans. The song reached number one on the Billboard Hot Soul Singles chart and climbed to a respectable number 11 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart. Its success wasn’t limited to the charts. The song’s relatable theme of parting ways resonated with a wide audience, becoming a popular choice for slow dances and a poignant soundtrack to breakups and goodbyes.
While undeniably a breakup ballad, “Kiss and Say Goodbye” transcends the limitations of a single situation. It delves into the broader human experience of loss, capturing the bittersweet emotions that accompany any goodbye, be it a romantic relationship, a cherished friend moving away, or even a significant life change. The song’s message of acknowledging the pain while holding onto the memories resonates deeply, offering a sense of solace and shared experience during difficult times.
“Kiss and Say Goodbye” continues to be a beloved classic. It has been covered by numerous artists, from soul legends like Luther Vandross to contemporary R&B singers. The song’s enduring popularity lies in its ability to connect with listeners on a personal level. Its timeless message and soulful delivery ensure its place as a cornerstone of R&B music and a poignant reminder of the bittersweet beauty of goodbyes.
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Lyrics:
This has got to be the saddest day of my life
I called you here today for a bit of bad news
I won’t be able to see you anymore
Because of my obligations, and the ties that you have
We’ve been meeting here everyday
And since this is our last day together
I wanna hold you just one more time
When you turn and walk away, don’t look back
I wanna remember you just like this
Let’s just kiss and say goodbye
I had to meet you here today
There’s just so many things to say
Please don’t stop me ’till I’m through
This is something I hate to do
We’ve been meeting here so long
I guess what we done, oh was wrong
Please darling, don’t you cry
Let’s just kiss and say goodbye
Many months have passed us by
(I’m gonna miss you)
I’m gonna miss you, I can’t lie
(I’m gonna miss you)
I’ve got ties, and so do you
I just think this is the thing to do
It’s gonna hurt me, I can’t lie
Maybe you’ll meet, you’ll meet another guy
Understand me, won’t you try, try, try, try, try, try, try
Let’s just kiss and say goodbye
(I’m gonna miss you)
I’m gonna miss you, I can’t lie
(I’m gonna miss you)
Understand me, won’t you try
(I’m gonna miss you)
It’s gonna hurt me, I can’t lie
(I’m gonna miss you)
Take my handkerchief, wipe your eyes
(I’m gonna miss you)
Maybe you’ll find, you’ll find another guy
(I’m gonna miss you)
Let’s kiss and say goodbye, pretty baby
(I’m gonna miss you)
Please, don’t you cry
(I’m gonna miss you)
Understand me, won’t you try
(I’m gonna miss you)
Let’s just kiss
And say goodbye